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Be Yourself 定係 Be Water
好多好勵志嘅場口都會叫人如果你想乜乜乜乜，就要物物物物，總之記住，be yourself。好多名人都講過，有歌手，有被稱美國版孔子嘅思想家，有運動員，有演員，有作家，仲有武術家。 
Be yourself, don’t take anything from anyone, and never let them take you alive.
 
To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.
 
Don’t worry what people say or what people think. Be yourself.
 
Don’t try to impress people. Always be yourself!
 
There is only one you for all time. Fearlessly be yourself.
 
One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself. 
Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.
 
呢句咁多人撑嘅名句，Be yourself ，好多時都會解做「做返自己」。聽落好正面，好有道理，好啱聽吖。不過，當你用返喺一啲現實生活中，咁就好有問題嘞。
 
「先生，你做乜唔戴口罩呀，唔該你戴返吖。」「我做返自己啫。」
 
「老友，你做乜隨地吐痰呀？」
「我做返自己啫。」
 
「唔該，你做乜喺度食煙呀？呢度唔食得煙㗎。」
「我做返自己啫。」
 「豬豬，你做乜呢排唔覆whatsapp啫？」
「我做返自己啫。」
 
「豬豬，你做乜呢排唔揾我嘅？」
「我做返自己啫。」
 
Be yourself 嘅後果，我諗你都會幾清楚。
 
又有啲人，好常態咁唔俾你做你自己想做嘅，阻礙你be yourself。
 
「阿宅，你做乜請假呀？」
「阿仔，你做乜一日掛住打機，唔讀書呀？」
「阿女，你做乜成日唔喺屋企呀？」
「阿女，你做乜唔出街揾啲朋友玩下？」
「阿爸，你做乜唔買部iPhone俾我啫？」「阿媽，你做乜唔俾我呢樣，又唔俾我嗰樣？」
「你做乜乜都要管住晒呢？」
「你做乜喺屋企乜七都唔做呀？去揾份工啦。」
 
喺呢啲情況，唔係你話想做返自己就可以做返自己。又如果你跟足晒啲名人咁去堅持，去撐，唔Q理其他人，剩係顧住自己，咁你會好辛苦。輕則唔見錢，罰下錢呀，使啲錢氹返下人咁。重則無晒朋友，眾叛親離。你都咪話唔擇洗。唔想後果嚴重，你可以yea,yea,yea任其搓圓襟扁，化干戈為玉帛，都未嘗唔係一個妙法。
 
喂，咁咪好衰仔，唔係王道正宗喎。錯！呢招絕對係明門正派，宗師風範。香港已故嘅一代武術家稱之為Be Water。
 Be Water
Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless, like water. Put water into a cup. Becomes the cup. Put water into a teapot. Becomes the teapot. Water can flow or creep or drip or crash. Be water my friend.
上善若水
放空你嘅思唯，無相，無形，若水。水注入杯，成杯。水注入茶壺，成茶壼。水可或流動或蠕變或滴瀝或冲擊。上善若水呀老友。 
大智若愚，剛柔並濟，值得深思。
 
be yourself 同be water 看似道不同，其實殊途同歸。明幾多，用到幾多就睇你自己造化嘞。