#metoo 11.25 IDEVAW

今日係 IDEVAW, International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women

尋日阿婆有個朋友喺中環某個商場撞到個舊上司, 佢問阿婆個朋友, "依家間公司啲人有冇對你好啲呀?"
呢位前上司係一個大好人, 但係對於阿婆個朋友當時受到嘅屈辱, 佢當時都係無咩辦法...
甚至乎有另一個女上司同阿婆個朋友講 "it happens to everyone..." :'( 專業人士 又如何!
professional firm 又如何!! 有份贊助 women 乜乜嘅 charity 又如何!!! 咪一樣咁唔尊重女性!!!!
其實耐唔耐都會有啲朋友問吓阿婆, 邊個邊個好唔好人架?
開頭都唔知點答好, 佢對我唔好, 唔代表會對你唔好喎 (當然都有啲係衰到全行都知, 嗰啲另計)
當你係 actual / potential 客, 佢一定會對你好; 當你想跟佢搵食, 你對佢價值大啲, 佢咪對你好啲
如果阿婆都讚佢嘅, 即係佢對阿婆呢啲低級職員都好好, 咁佢真係好好人!
如果阿婆平淡咁帶過呢個話題, 什至乎 no comment, 你亦應該知道答案了, i.e. 阿婆失憶了

作為一個女性, 阿婆反對任何人以任何形式對女性使用暴力, be it 性騷擾, 性侵犯, 或 語言暴力喺 11月25 呢個 國際消除對婦女的暴力日, 阿婆祝願各位女性要自強不息
至於過咗去嘅無可奈何, 就盡快走出陰霾, 只記住啲好人好事, 為今日&將來嘅自己努力!


photo credit: http://www.un.org/en/events/endviolenceday/assets/img/featured-image-index.jpg